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Chatting

I miss these meaningful chats which we used to do in past…. life had turned too busy. If u’re unmarried don’t see this… its a boring chat. For married people, its time for u all to realize the truth and reason of ur living. Bcoz only u have to become the perfect example for ur kids, nobody else in this world can play ur role. I was blessed to have a wonderful parents who taught me so much that today I’m able to think clearly about what’s right n what’s wrong for me. I won’t waste ur time on lecture, so let’s go thru what I liked talking about….. The meaningful chatting…

Friend: just remember u are tooooo youngggg

gsvirdi: :)

gsvirdi: yes ji…. number wise I am…. age

Friend: hmm..kuch nahin for now

gsvirdi: but bcoz I came to know that I have a right to luv anybody on this earth (irrespective of this number) so I’m using my right to do so :)

Friend: u make me smile :)

Friend: yes ppl should be taught more about luv ki language

Friend: i know our indian ppl copy western society….

gsvirdi: ppl always copy a lifestyle where responsibilites are not there

Friend: kids in primary start having sex n enjoyment…by the time they grow up…. they are tired with their lifes…being abused from a small age

Friend: just like yesterday i told uuuu…woman here wannna free lifeee

Friend: w/ends they wanna go out party, alcohol n sex…. they leave their small kids at babysitters for night or may be for the w/end….there is so much tension in married life here

Friend: everyone wants easy way out

gsvirdi: there is nothing called easy way out in marriage.

gsvirdi: marriage is a responsible life, and ppl don’t wanna take responsibilites and fall into a trap of loyalty.

gsvirdi: and everybody on this earth enjoys a irresponsible life without having any rules… and enjoying the freedom to anything.

Friend: easy way they feel they have a free few days of pleasure…those few days….they feel they are on the top of the clouds…who cares its my life ..wala baat ho jaata

Friend: its a big crisis here…social workers get so frasturated with families..esp apna ppl jiii

gsvirdi: same thing ji…. lack or responbilitty in the person. a responsible person will not go and do such thing.

gsvirdi: I belive that this 1 word can change anybody’s life

gsvirdi: just become responsible for everything we do in this life, and u will see that there are millions of things which needs our heart and soul in it. we are living a life of fun n enjoyment only.

gsvirdi: its a person’s own responsibility to remain honest, caring, luving affectionate, loyal, faithful, and dependable for his family and friends.

Friend: yes jiii….

gsvirdi: and once u leave ur responsible attitude in life… there is no way to gain it back, and u’ll continue to fall lower and lower in ur cultural values.

Friend: sooooooooo true jiii….

gsvirdi: irresponsible ppl make fun of such honest ppl, but its our responsibility to respect other person also… I’ve seen in my life that its all game of 1 word ji…. responsibility.

Friend: responsibilty for u jiiiiiiiiii…..plzz tell meee thoda saaa

gsvirdi: kabhi kabhi mujhey lagta hai I’m a wrong person in 21st century. I should be somewhere in 17th or 18th century. lol

Friend: u have to teach ppl of 21st century….. morales n responsibilty of life tooooo

gsvirdi: for me Resp. is everything, it starts with respecting & luving everybody around u as if they all are ur family.

gsvirdi: which sounds impossible at this stage of life

gsvirdi: nobody can do this untill others also respect/luv him/her in return. 1 person can’t keep luving n respecting the remaining world without getting anything in return.

Friend: ohhh…so trueeeee jiiiii…. mere saath aise hi hota kyonnnnnn

gsvirdi: this situation is just like respecting n luving god….  god will not come down n say that I also luv n respect u. but still a person can luv n respect god forever….

gsvirdi: @aisa kiyu; I’ve found a easier way to luv all, I try NOT to expect anything in return of what I’m doing. I’ve told myself that the reason of my life is to respect and luv all. and if I’m not doing it, then it means that my life is a waste. So to make my life a meaningful thing… I’m respecting n luving all without expecting anything in return.

gsvirdi: It becomes hard with others direspect me, then I tell myeself that maybe this is the only thing they can give me… bcoz they are poor in their soul…. so I forgive them and continue to live my life respecting n luving others.

gsvirdi: Ex: just like we will forgive ur kids for their mistakes they made in childhood and still we luv them.

Friend: may be we are born to think alike..in diff parts of the world

gsvirdi: :)

gsvirdi: then the satan in me tells that it is my right to be respected and luved…so I should ask for it.

gsvirdi: But my angels blesses me with their wisdom… and tells me that 1st concentrate on doing my duties. later I can ask for my rights… and if I will finish my duties properly… then god himself with make sure that I will get all my rights without asking for them.

gsvirdi: and when god is doing sumthing for me, then why should I worry about that thing??? so I try to concentrate on doing my duty of respecting and luving  all.

gsvirdi: Life is so complecated, n yet sooo simple to live and enjoy.

gsvirdi: :)

Friend: soooo understanding thoughts..kehte hai keep doing ur duties …..u will be blessed with everything..its just a matter of time

Friend: sometimes we make it complicated in our own way..sometimes its the ppl around us make is miserable

Friend: so stay content :)

gsvirdi: soch raha hu ki peenay ki liye koi cold drink le aau.

gsvirdi: moreover cold drink is not so necessary for me to live, iss liye idea dropped.

gsvirdi: mai bahut simple thinking karta hu ji.

gsvirdi: Required or Not required…. aur decision kar liya

gsvirdi: :)

gsvirdi: whenever I’m sad…. I listen to music, and imagine that I’m singing and god’s sitting infront and listing to me. I feel gud :)

Friend: i enjoy music….

gsvirdi: :)

Friend: music is my best frnd…………………….. okkk

gsvirdi: i treate music differently… I feel its a higher language to communicat from inner soul to higher angels.

Friend: best frnd why becaz..someone is singing..I quietly sit n listen naa jii

Friend: jaise side by sideee

gsvirdi: :)

gsvirdi: cho romantik

Friend: romance with musicccccccc…luv it

gsvirdi: me too :)

Friend: do u know its my 2.46ammmm

gsvirdi: OOH… no ji…. I’m really sorry. I feel now its ur time to go n sleep :)

Friend: why u sorry now jiii

gsvirdi: take some rest ji… u have to do lots of things this weekend

gsvirdi: sorry that I didn’t kept track of ur time

Friend: no sorry jiiiiiiiii

Friend: i had my rest….am smart now

gsvirdi: its ur kindness that u r saying that  but i should be sorry too bcoz its my duty to be responsible for ur resting time. :)

Friend: if I had something important to be donee…. i would be sleeping

gsvirdi: so it does not mean that u will stay awake in the night and then ur body will ask for rest in the middle of the day… n u’ll be tired

Friend: will sleep in a bit

Friend: no tension jiii

gsvirdi: :)

gsvirdi: so now it’s on u that whenever u wanaa leave

Friend: hmmmm…..goood

gsvirdi: I feel tonight we have talked lots of nice things… a food for soul u can add in ur book

Friend: am happy

gsvirdi: so u better save this chat

gsvirdi: without my name in it.

:)

The Interview Checklist !

Even if u wanna get into some small company for any kinda job, u’ll need to pass the Interview. Let’s make interviews easy; thou “Interview” is very tension full yet an important event in the path of our professional success. U want it or not; u HAVE to take part in this event, and the only option u have is to “Do ur best”; else u’ll be kicked out.

I happened to see a TV recording of this dance audition-1; sadly it was more of abusing word games instead of dance audition. Both auditors and contestants had exchange of hard words, nobody wanted to lower their ego. Like other people I also could have seen, enjoyed the fight, and had forgotten the TV show.

But I’m taught to be responsible, so everything in this world belongs to all of us together. This is our earth, our world, our society… and to make it “worth living” is… what we all should be longing to achieve. I tried to figure out the reason behind that abusive program. I came to a conclusion that “It all happened due to lack of knowledge of interviewers & contestants both”. I’ll explain why I think so….

If u know that the new place where u’re going to visit will have snow, then u’ll pack enough of woolens with u. And… if that the new place is very hot, then u’ll never waste the space in ur suitcase by packing woolens.

So, if u know what’s gonna be asked in the interview, u will make ur preparations in that direction only. Similarly if the interviewer knows what good/worst they may come across in the interview, then they would direct their questions, replies and decisions in that direction.

Today I’m trying to share a Interview checklist which u we should remember before stepping into the interview chamber.

1. Technical (Job) knowledge:

Be aware of the exact job for which u’re gonna apply, if u feel u’re not 100% perfect for that job. Then back out immediately, or else sooner or later u’ll be in a trouble. A boss will help u outta problem, or else u’re out of that office.

2. Relevant Experience:

Remember that the time u had spent in gaining the “relevant” experience of that job is the only thing which counts.

For example: I’m working as Instrumentation Engineer with a total of +14yrs of experience, I have through knowledge of AutoCAD (all versions) & Microstation as a Draughtsman (Mech) => +13Yrs; Search Engine Optimization (SEO), Online marketing, Website analysis, Blogging, Article writing, On page & Off page optimization, Link building => 1Yr; Im independently coding and creating C&I related utilities in VS 2008 C# => 2Yrs. But u do think if I apply in Microsoft as a coder, then I will be taken as a person with 14Yr experience?

I will say No… bcoz my relevant experience in coding is just of 2Yrs. But I can fit in as a supervisor, manager, product analytic, troubleshooter, customer support team, product testers, strategy planner, etc where my overall experience counts.

So make a note of ur Relevant experience very carefully.

3. Clarity of Thoughts:

This means that whatever u know and say, u should be extremely clear about it. U maybe good in hiding ur weakness, but the fact is that the interviewer is much more intelligent than u. They may not reveal that they have caught u, but they will be honest enough to reveal it on the paper. I’d say that if u don’t know the answer of anything they’re asking, just be honest “I’m sorry sir I don’t know. But let me try to think of an answer using my knowledge/experience”.

4. Way of Expression:

Confidence is the key here. Anything and anywhere if u answer without confidence, then that answer is gonna lose its marks for sure. Even if u know that the interviewer is trying to confuse u… DO NOT ever be rude, arrogant, or stubborn in ur way of expression. It must be possible that u might have done something in real which the interviewer is not agreeing as a correct/right way to do. But this does not mean that u’re talking to ur enemy, its always possible to remain polite and come to an agreement.

5. Ability to communicate:

50% of ur interview is lost if u lose here. It is obvious that the interviewer will talk in double meaning way, its ur duty to figure out the right one and answer accordingly. It may be possible that they try to prove u wrong, but this does not mean that they are ur enemy. Be polite, understand the reason behind what theyre telling, only then speak. It is interviewers job to check ur ability to respond nicely in difficult situations, respect them and let them do their duty by responding in a mature manner.

6. Academic Records:

In professions like IT, BPO, Marketing, etc ur papers (degree) might not be an important thing. But in engineering believe me, ur papers are ur lifeline. If u dont have BE, ure nothing to be respected. So before u apply, look for ur papers first.

7. Team Work:

Remember that the interviewers are NOT sitting there to look for 1 perfect employee; they are there to find the best contributing teammate. So if u cant perform well in team, ure no good. Try to have a paper/award which talks about ur valuable contributions to the team, it will always give u a positive kick.

8. Level of Adaptability:

Im talking about u fitting into ur new office/cabin/cubical, Im talking about u becoming a part of the existing team. By seeing ur reactions towards surprising statements, annoying questions, decision making situations, by ur tone of replies, with ur body language interviewer will get an idea of how easily u may blend into their team. U might be a genius, but if cant become a part of his team, ure a useless genius. Every individual will react in different ways, so select ur best way. and react in a humble and decent manner.

9. Ur Strengths:

Try to make all conversations move towards ur strengths, so that u can express urself in a much better way. Whenever u give an example to explain something, try that the example u give should be in line with ur strengths.

10. Ur Weakness:

Everybody have some weakness, never be shy of them. Theyre also a part of u, if u cant remove them then befriend them. Always make the interviewer believe that the weakness is just temporary and u will work on it as soon as u gets a chance (in ur new job).

I’ve just tried to use my 14Yr experience to help u all who read my blogs. I must have missed few things in this process, so do let me know about what more I should include in our checklist.

Gud Luck everybody, almighty lord bless u all. J

Author: gsvirdi
E-mail: not available
Date: 1/10/2011 11:20:23 AM
Subject: Re: A long…… but, touching…..
Message: “While we try to teach our children all about life, our children teach us what life is all about”

Beautiful line…. What I feel about the reason behind this immature ignorance of elders is that Elders get too busy with themself and their abilities.

We all think I have to do this, I should do this, I can do this, etc, etc…. drowning inside that “I” is 1 of the mistakes we all do everyday. I understand that this is being human, but can u give this excuse for whole of ur life?

I’d like to share a beautiful quote by mother Teresa “If u judge people, then u won’t have time to luv them”; this is what is happening with everybody now-a-days. Nobody can ever fall in luv using their brain, still people bring their brain between two souls. I agree that u must be careful in life and so judging a person might be necessary, but is this (judging) da most important thing to do in any relationship?

If ur answer is “No”, then Stop-it yaar… learn to trust, trust like a child. A child who blindly trusts his parents… Child keeps smiling even when that child is flung into the air, bcoz of the trust that his/her parents will catch him/her.

If u think u’re a grownup then why the hell u r sooooooo scared to get hurt? Where is that enthusiasm disappeared with which u used to say “U can’t rise in life without taking risks”. Why ur ego/will power does not makes u feel ashamed of urself when u r not able to trust (blindly) god?

I’m really sorry to point-out that: All those macho-man out there, all u charming gals, all those highly educated big shots… u all need to learn the basic lesson of “Trusting da almighty”.

Learn & practice to Trust, and u will get god gifts (like): Kindness, affection, luv, forgiveness, down-to-earth nature…. all for free.

As a volunteer of Rotary International (NGO) we’re told to always remember “Service above self”, same way we should also always try to remember “Luv above our self, realize the fact that the ‘I’ is not as big as u really think.”

I’ll repeat these beautiful words: “If u judge people, then u won’t have time to luv them”. Try to think about those words (above) every time u think about “I”…. :)

B Blessed.

I’m in mood Part-2

Source: GS Virdi’s personal blog

When I c u around me,
U make my heart skip a beat.
I’d never thought that I’d ever feel like this,
Feels as if some excitement is engulfing me.

When I c u around me…
Butterflies dance in my stomach,
and I don’t know how to control them.
I want to look into ur eyes,
and wish to see myself in them.
I want u to be mine,
with ur heart and mind both.

When I c u around me…
I want to feel that touch of ur hands,
soft like cotton and warm like kiss.
Ur eyes r just like two big pearls,
I can drown in ur deep angel eyes.
with u everywhere on my mind,
I can’t think anything except u.
Storms of loneliness engulf me when Ure gone,
Loneliness sickens me heart when u say good bye.

When I c u around me….
U smile comforts my helpless heart,
that heart which is torn by cruel world.
Ur smile reveals a deep mystery in it,
and colors my world as u bloom.

When I c u around me….
the only thing I can c is U,
I’ve lost myself bcoz now my is U.
If u give ur heart to me in luv,
then v both will live together,
and will live forever….
in each other’s hearts.

I just felt like sharing all this, I’m in mood today :)

Author: gsvirdi
E-mail: -
Date: 12/29/2010 10:30:45 AM
Subject: Re: Falling In Love Quotes
Message: Very nice quotes :)

I would like to make a small correction in one of ur quotes here:
“The worst thing a guy can do is; To make a girl Fall for him when he has no intention of loving her truly.”

It’s really sad to see that Indian culture is almost dead in youngsters now-a-days, everybody talks of luv, they all know the definition of luv, but… but… but nobody wants to accept the fact that luv demands your:
Unconditional affection,
Attending responsibilities, and
Being committed.

Commitments now-a-day are like a bunch of words, guys will say it just to get close to a gal. Nobody can ever imagine that luv is not at all physical, everybody talks of luv, feelings, emotions of happiness and pain in luv… but they all forget that there are many couples who appear to be eternally happy just bcoz they are in luv.

I’d like to give an example of this: A L&Ten bought a bike, can’t afford too much still he can’t go lower then Pulsar150 bcoz that bike is bought to show-off (or say attach attention).

One fine day as he was driving to office at the speed of 80…. Zooooooooom went a Yamaha FZ153 (can cross the speed of 120 in 8Sec).

I bet the guy will feel sad, very sad, then he will also accelerate and try to catch that guy. But that sadness will remain somewhere hidden in the heart that he does not possess the best bike in the market.

As expected that guy will not cry, nor he will try to sell this one to buy a better bike, then what will he do? U will agree that the guy will simply try to fool himself by reminding better things about his Pulsar150… on the same time he will try to ignore the fact that his bike is not the fastest one.

True???

Just one question: Why the hell that same guy will not luv his girl in the same way? He will always keep looking for better opportunities and finding a more beautiful one….

Dual standards of Youngsters…. I will again say Indian culture is dying in almost all youngsters now-a-days.

If u also decide to keep the culture and parental teachings alive… then just be Human, I agree nobody will give u Billions of $, nobody will put garland in ur neck, u may never come on TV for this, nor any newspaper will talk about u.

But that self-consciousness…. will always make u smile, happy, and content. Last but not the least…. I will always respect u, no matter wherever u are, no matter if I know u’re good or not… I always will respect real “Humans” who are not like irresponsible animals.

Can u pledge to urself and help make our India beautiful… as beautiful as it was centuries ago. Can u keep the education and culture both alive inside ur mind and heart?

I’m trying… from past 10yrs… and I’m happy that I’ve always done better then what I did yesterday :)

PS: Plz excuse my spellings…..
Source: http://virdigs.wordpress.com

Nobody fools the “Fear”…

Source: http://virdigs.wordpress.com
We can fool all our emotions/feelings; provided if we can give a good reason for it. We all give some kinda reasons to fool our self and feel better about unpleasant things happening in our life. We can find a reason to luv, hate, be happy, feel sad, cry, laugh, smile, frown, etc and etc…. But the only emotion u can’t fool is “Fear“, u can’t remove the fear by just reminding urself with any reason.

In a way the “Fear” is immune to reasoning, u can find 100s of reasons… and u can create another 100s of reasons… but u just can’t reason the “Fear” away from u. Bcoz the fear originates from within our self… we can’t handle it with the Reasoning. It is just the same thing as u can’t cure ur fever (internal) using any ointment (external).

Fear is only of two types:
1. Somebody else’s fear, adopted by u.
2. Your own fear, fed nicely by u.
In both cases the reason of bringing fear in ur heart/mind/life is same… fear of losing something/some1 who is present in ur life. In short… its the “Fear of Loss“. We’re all are created to get destroyed 1 fine day, still we all pay useless attention & luv of possessing things we have in life. Everybody talks of being “selfless” human, but still none of us are the way we all should be. It’s perfectly okie… we’re all humans and we all have a right to make occasional mistakes too. There’s nothing bad in making mistakes, bcoz the result of our mistakes gives us that unforgettable lesson.

Prevention is better then cure, sounds familiar quote? I know… now have a look on things which help u do the prevention. U want more, u create more doors for fear to enter. U expect more, u create more windows for fear to creep in. U wish more, n u create more hammers which will break ur walls (discipline). I bet that the path of prevention looks tough, but nothing says that this path is impossible. U also know that u have that strength to walk on that path, and no path is having a rule that u are not allowed to fall & getup again. So… :)

U will have all clear & strong reasons of bringing-in the fear, but to take that fear out… u need to have a separate route & strategy. Reasoning may work for all of us in almost all situations, but for fear…. the only available vaccine known to human brain is “Hope & Faith”, its really essential to have equal proportion of both these meds to cure Fear.

Our life has turned hectic, and nobody gets out of it alive anyway. U may agree that we’ve become quick enough to find/give a reason of anything happening to us. U can find a good reason to fear from ur fear, or else u may find a good reason to not to fear from the fear. In both cases the fear remains in there, so its better to think carefully about the option u may wish to select. Emotions which take birth directly inside us are just like our shadow, u can run from ur shadow; but u can’t ever run away from it.

I agree that we may not think clearly when we’re stuck by fear, but “no thinking” is also not the solution. It is not necessary that we need to be stuck by fear 1st, we can always keep those two medicines ready in our closet of life. We need to really have faith in the supernatural god, and our strong faith will strengthen the hope inside us.

I agree that nothing bad’s gonna happen to u if u will not have “hope/faith”, but on the other hand u will agree that nothing good’s gonna happen too. We cannot reason fear away. If we could reason the fear; we would find that there is very little to fear… because most of fears originate within us.

Have a fearless day ahead,

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